My Friends

Ever since I can remember I have always been kinda selective in the people I dealt with. During primairy school I wasn't that populair but eighter the one that was bullied. I had a few friends that I was really close with and during high school I still hung out with them. Right now I only see few of them regularly (in this case: once to 3 times a year).
During High school I had some good friends. Only two of them stayed friends and are the ones I'm really close to.

My jobs have also been an addition to my social life. My gay best friend was my collegue ones. And my current job has really upgraded my social life!

My college years made me have some good friends but only one remained.
My current education is full of nice people but I don't concider somebody as a close friend.

So: My Friends

Kyli: Highschool friend since 14 or 15 years old. Lives in the city of my high school. We visite each other regularly (at least ones a month). Just bought her own apartment. Has 4 cats, which I adore!! Is currently a truckdriver but has ambitions to change her job. We went to the UK and Hungary together and she also is really into travelling, which I really like. She is a very relaxed girl, talks calm and slowly which makes her the opposite of me. She is spiritual which makes her mysterious and interesting at the same time. Always has good advices and someone I can really count on.

Simone: Highschool friend since the age of 14 or 15 years. Also lived in the city of my high school. Currently lives in the City of her University of Applied Science, which is another one than mine. Loves dogs, is vegetarian too. Has some troubles with her parents/family as well. Has negative image about herself and goes to counselling as well. We do the girly stuff together. Go to the sauna, paint each others hair, give beauty and fashion advices to each other. I when on several holidays with her. We visited Turkey, Czech, Egypt, Slovakia (with a day of Vienna!!), and Poland together.
At the moment she'd let me know that she needs times of her own and she sometimes is really bugged by my behaviour and attitude. She also has her own goals and challenges and wants to cope with that on her own. I was very said to hear so but I want to give her the space that she needs and I wait to be reunited in the future.

Lincoln: My gay best friends. Lives with his boyfriend of over three years an hour away from me. During my study in France he visited me and we both like a good glass of wine. He is a very decent and friendly person. He can be hysterical, fun and a joy as well as a real help and advising person. Happy to have him!

Amber: My friend since my first college year of Social Work. Since I was 18 years old. Haven't seen her for over five years, sometimes we are not in contact for one year. Right now we regularly call and chat together. We both like to TALK! And analyse everthing about our boys, lovelife, sex, marriage, cheating, parents, troubles, work, collegues, flirts, going out, drugs, etc. etc. etc. We are just CRAZY when it comes to talking and exchanging information! She's cool!

Samira: Is my Maroccan friend. She lives few cities away from me, we are friends that see each other just few times a year but we really like hanging out together. I met her during my first Social Work internship. The internship wasn't that successfull but this friendship lasted.

My Collegues:
Sharon, Jade, Simone, Romina, Herbert, Jan-Wouter, Whitney, Dave, Tamara, Yarima.
Few times a year I invite my collegues for drinks and bites at my place. It is always so much fun. When Sharon had her first apartment I visited her in her town. When Jade switched rooms in the same city I checked it out. Tamara had dinner at my place once and Yarima even did few times. Romina is the one that quite at my job a few years ago. She doesn't wanna be part in the job-events anymore but she visites me few times a year. I was at Simone's graduation party years ago at her place and we went out for drinks in the city ones. These are all just very nice people that I share with!